That's the gist of many gunnies I read, and it pisses me the hell off.
I can't OC because even though I live in a place that has some of the least restrictive carry laws, OC is still verboten. However, if it was allowed tomorrow, I'd OC most of the time. One, I don't buy into the whole Super Mall Ninja "I'll keep it hidden so I can surprise my attacker" shit, nor do I think the chances of me not being able to keep my gun out of the fight are worth weighing (how many of you have ever been in any situation where you needed your gun but decided against it?).
The problem is the PSH from our side about me wanting to open carry. I don't want to do it to "get into people's faces", I want to do it because it's a lot more comfortable. Yes, the added benefit is that it desensitizes people to seeing guns, and yes I have no problem with that, but that's a byproduct of OC for me. I'm an activist, what do you expect?
I keep hearing the line "For every one person you turn on, two others are turned off". Just like I do with the anti's, I demand proof of statements like that. Show me studies where people have been turned off. Show me increased demand for tighter gun control after an OC event. We keep making more and more strides towards gun ownership and yet people keep fearing this sudden backlash where everything is repealed overnight.
I agree that the whole "let's all get together and OC together" thing is an in your face approach. I don't particularly care for it myself, but I'm not going to stop others from doing so. But when Melanie Hain carried to that soccer game, there were plenty of people on our side pooh-poohing her actions as if it were the same thing. "Sure, you can open carry, but not someplace where people will have a problem with it!"
So, I guess OC'ing in my bedroom is fine, just make sure the curtains are drawn so the neighbors don't see.